Then you know just how f*cked up it can feel if you’ve ever been ghosted after hooking up with someone. This happened certainly to me the very first time ( maybe not a brag) perhaps not that way back when, and my ego ended up being literally shattered, particularly because we tripped over their foot and headbutted him whenever I visited kiss him goodbye. RIP. If you’re anything like me, you’re most likely planning to blame yourself and overthink about WTF could’ve happened—and that’s totally normal. Or perhaps you might blame the one who ghosted you to be a player.