“We’ve been casually dating for eight months. He’s super sweet and final week-end he prepared me the essential dinner that is romantic. But he’s nevertheless finding out just just what he wishes…”
My pal Michelle was dropping for some guy called Mike, and she wishes a relationship, but he doesn’t desire to commit to her. It started out casual and as they have a great time sleepovers and now have also gone away for a week-end together, it is still theoretically casual. He’s nevertheless seeing other folks, on dating apps wanting to meet more leads, and also this is fine by her, because he’s been honest about where he’s at, and he’s not ready for anything serious. But he does sweet things, boyfriend things, and although Michelle thinks she’s casually dating (for the reason that it’s what he labels it), in her own heart, he’s her boyfriend. He’s the main one she ponders whenever she wakes up, he’s the main one she invests her power into doing thoughtful things for. He could be her very very first option.
Meanwhile, some other good man which comes along her method, because she wants to technically play her part in this casual dating dynamic), none of these guys really stand a chance, because her heart already belongs to Mike while she may entertain going on dates with.