I’m sitting right here preparing to continue a night out together tonight…and D has been doing the ditto ( just how sweet it that? ) But there is however constantly one thing i do believe about before I get out…do we wear my wedding band? Does he? We now have total disclosure with this lovers about our marriage, so that it’s nothing like we’re hiding something, however it constantly seems strange to own it on while I’m out with someone. It’s not big at all, and I also only have actually one band however it is like We might because very well be putting on this:
Based on Wikipedia, “After wedding, the band is used regarding the tactile hand it absolutely was added to throughout the ceremony. A married couple symbolically declares their eternal love for each other by wearing rings on the fourth finger. It has now become a matter of etiquette and tradition. ” Tradition and etiquette. The 2 items that I’m form of going against being poly. But, the meaning also contains “declaring eternal love for every single other”…do we absolutely need a band for that?
And who precisely is this declaration to? I understand we love one another, he knows we love each other…why do i have to “declare” any such thing about this?
I’m going not to use it for dates or any situations when meeting/looking to meet up with people that are new. The remainder right time it’s going to be on. For the present time.
Stress lifetime is tossing me plenty of bend balls recently.
Both poly and never poly associated. For just one, work is crazy!